Logo

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

16.06.2025 00:11

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

How old are you? Male or Female?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

If a person stops thinking one or two words in a second or half second means he had stopped thinking for half second?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

What are the differences between Republicans and Democrats in their views of the government's role in society? How do these differences impact policymaking?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

Why would a man be interested in an ordinary woman while there are very beautiful and fabulous women?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

Is fellatio addictive?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

Wow! The changeover from President Biden to VP Kamala Harris as candidate could not have been more successful in just 2 days! It was as if they had been planning it. Could they have planned it? Are you excited by the positive Democratic response?

Any that are a turn off?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

Why do flat-earth conspiracy theorists believe that photos from space, including those of satellites, are fake?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

What are some dirty secrets of Indian (Bollywood, etc.) actors and actresses?

*** Random Questions ***

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

As a friend of Megan's who also watches Suits, would you advise her not to return to the show in order to protect her character's reputation?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

Amazon joins the big nuclear party, buying 1.92 GW for AWS - TechCrunch

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

Thunder-Pacers: SGA, OKC rally to win Game 4 of NBA Finals - Al Jazeera

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

Nothing too Serious

I have a bad reputation and need help. What should I do?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

Why are there so many girls and not enough boys to follow?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

Can supporters of gun control explain the purpose behind a gun registry?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

The Ice Breaker Questions

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

If yes, what?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

Would you read them together?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

Family Relation Age Play

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

Please share Did you stop?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

52~ What are your hobbies?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

What is your favorite position? Why?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

29- How superstitious are you?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

39~ What are your love languages?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

Any that are a turn off?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

If you win, what will you make them do?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

*** Questions About Me ***

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?